The humans have needs

… but also lots of desires.

If our partners take care

only of our needs … it’s nice

… but never enough.

Sooner or later … we’ll chase somewhere else for support

related to our desires …  by the well known romanian essayist Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

Truth be told… it is really complicated on long term to satisfy our partners.

In fact … i believe it is almost impossible.

But … the real problem is that we can’t disconnect from that person … break up … and totally forget the story.

I mean …. ignore what the partner wants …. being ignored with what we want … but still continue being into the relationship … in nice conditions.

No …

Realistically … it is not possible …

Somehow … we need to find a way together … in how we can satisfy all our needs and desires.

Or … at least … try it.

Otherwise … we’ll unconsciously start to be annoyed … frustrated … and unhappy.

We might need … love, tenderness, money, expensive gifts … etc etc.

And we might ask for that … on and on …. and on …

But … somehow … into one point … nothing happens anymore.

We ask …. but the partner is not listening anymore.

We can’t believe it … but …

And … you see … cause life disappointed us many times … we become silent … accepting all as it is.

We don’t say … a word … anymore … but still having those needs and desires … whatever that means … it all becomes obvious that we’ll continue looking for another solution.

Unfortunately …. many times that means …. someone else … capable of giving us … what we need or want.

So … we just ruin … all.

That is actually the point when it becomes obvious that relationships are based on … needs.

And … we need to synchronise those needs … in continuous form.

Accept all … as normality.

… also the desires.

Otherwise ….

Yes … otherwise … someone else will take care of that … and we’ll be taken out of the story.

With … or without our approval.

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