That is actually the point when it becomes obvious that relationships are based on ... needs.
… but also lots of desires.
If our partners take care
only of our needs … it’s nice
… but never enough.
Sooner or later … we’ll chase somewhere else for support
related to our desires … by the well known romanian essayist Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Truth be told… it is really complicated on long term to satisfy our partners.
In fact … i believe it is almost impossible.
But … the real problem is that we can’t disconnect from that person … break up … and totally forget the story.
I mean …. ignore what the partner wants …. being ignored with what we want … but still continue being into the relationship … in nice conditions.
No …
Realistically … it is not possible …
Somehow … we need to find a way together … in how we can satisfy all our needs and desires.
Or … at least … try it.
Otherwise … we’ll unconsciously start to be annoyed … frustrated … and unhappy.
We might need … love, tenderness, money, expensive gifts … etc etc.
And we might ask for that … on and on …. and on …
But … somehow … into one point … nothing happens anymore.
We ask …. but the partner is not listening anymore.
We can’t believe it … but …
And … you see … cause life disappointed us many times … we become silent … accepting all as it is.
We don’t say … a word … anymore … but still having those needs and desires … whatever that means … it all becomes obvious that we’ll continue looking for another solution.
Unfortunately …. many times that means …. someone else … capable of giving us … what we need or want.
So … we just ruin … all.
That is actually the point when it becomes obvious that relationships are based on … needs.
And … we need to synchronise those needs … in continuous form.
Accept all … as normality.
… also the desires.
Otherwise ….
Yes … otherwise … someone else will take care of that … and we’ll be taken out of the story.
With … or without our approval.
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